Hi everyone it's Sharon. I thought maybe it was time for me to make a post. First of all let me say that Dave is doing okay and seems to have kicked the pneumonia, according to the doctors. Let me just say that for awhile now the doctors have been saying that I am the best judge on Dave's condition, because I seem the must tuned into how he is on a daily basis. I think he is still fighting the pneumonia a bit, I don't think it is completely resolved, but he is in very good care and it won't get out of hand again. Those of you who were there at Johns Hopkins know how hard it was for me and Dave's family to make a decision on where Dave should go from there. You also know that I had a hard time dealing with the options that were given to me. I felt that Dave needed more care then what was being offered as far as our options. In his own way Dave affirmed my fears! 104 fever and getting put in ICU because of respitory distress is definititly one way of letting us know "I need a higher level of care, skilled nursing just won't DO!!!!!" I have nothing against skilled nursing but it is not for someone under the age of 50!!!!! I might be biased, just my opinion.
Tomorrow Dave is getting moved into a LTach (long term acute care hospital). The long term is actually shorter then you think. For most people it is around a month. Since we all know Dave has never done anything by the book, or the way it is suppose to be done, we can only assume he might be there longer. This is not a bad thing! Dave needs very attentive care right now so we can stop taking a step forward and then two back. I feel very confident that Dave is finally being placed in a place that can handle all that he is going to throw at them. All of us know that Dave never does anything half-assed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He's getting his money's worth, and giving them all a pop quiz on top of it. (YOUR GONNA EARN IT BABY)
For anyone who has doubts, Dave is still all there!!!!!!!!!!!
To all of his friends at Skytop:
Dave still knows who you all are!!!!!!!! I tell him everyday all the people from work who has asked about him, who is praying for him, and who wants to come see him when he is ready. He has not forgotten his extended family. He still knows all your names and where you work, regardless if you have been there for five years of fifteen. We all know Dave, and I think he would be willing to do inventory for next 365 days and get all the pop-ups you could give him, if he could just get back to normal life! Dave would like to extend a thank you to his staff! You really pulled it together when you had to and he is sorry he wasn't there, and will not be for a awhile, but he is proud of you all!!!!!!!!!!!!(He has been updated!!!!!!!!!!!)Bernice he feels for you, he got help at least from Jim(puddy), you have no one to ask! (we all try to help when we can)
So to everyone at Skytop, you are Dave's extended family and he thanks you all, for your prayers and well wishes,and he misses you all, never doubt that!!
The last couple of weeks have been tough, we moved from a point of trying to figure out what was wrong to, wow, is Dave going to get through this road bump? He is and he is going to get better! I ask Dave everyday if he feels he is going to get better, he still sticks to YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I would just like to extend a thank you from me and Dave! To all who have included Dave in their prayers and thought, to all who have given us a little something to make everything a little easier, and to all of our friends who have who have decided that making my life easier is their mission in life right know, THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I LOVE YOU ALL! I WILL NEVER FORGET!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi Sharon,
ReplyDeleteIt's Mom. We all know what great care you're taking of Dave, I'm in total awe of you & the strength you've shown. Having been in on this thing from the beginning I know what a roller coaster ride you've been on. There's not a minute of the day that you & Dave aren't on my mind.
If there's one good thing about this, it's that you have found out (the hard way)what great friends & family you have & how much we all love you& Dave. So hang in there & one of these days you can report that Dave has turned a corner. Thanks to Wendy, Amy, Matt, Paige, George & all the others.
hi, sharon
ReplyDeleteit ann from pine hollow just a short note to tell
you we are all thinking about you and dave
are prayers are with you guys
lv,ann & stu
Hello Sharon and Dave,
ReplyDeleteThere is not a day that goes by that your not thought of. We cannot wait until the day you are well enough to get home and play with your doggies! Joe Cassidy and Eric Matson were here this past week visiting and hopefully your ears were ringing because you were apart of our conversations and our prayers. We love ya and hope to see you here in Florida sometime soon!Stay strong and keep the faith! Much love, LCH and Puddy!
Hi Sharon! Ok...So who needs A marriage certificate?! We're always teasing you about just getting married already....Not that I doubted it for even a second, but I think you've got "For Richer,For Poorer, In sickness and in health..." pretty much covered without a piece of paper! ;) You have and will continue to make the best decisions! I know how easy it might be to second guess yourself. We love you and Dave and neither of you leave our thoughts! Call me when you get a chance! Hugs and smooches!
ReplyDeleteVanessa
Hello Dave and Sharon,
ReplyDeleteI know it has been a while since we have spoke or seen you guys, but Lisa and I have been reading the blog and praying for Dave to have a speedy recovery. We are amazed at how strong you have been through all of this. We know it must be tuff to see someone you love to be going through this. We will keep you in our prays.
Love you guys,
Craig & Lisa
Hi Sharon,
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking of both of you quite often. I keep positive thoughts and send love to you both.
Eileen Nowakowski
ANYTIME WE CAN HELP! I can't wait for the next girls night...and DAVE! George cant wait for the next round of golf...cold, bitter, and January aside, he is already back in golf mode! Get better mister! You have a wedding to attend!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteSharon,
ReplyDeleteI've been following your story and my heart goes out to both of you. I'm thinking of you and Dave and will continue to pray for him, as well as, all of his friends and family. Love, Tina Varallo
We will always have you in our prayers! We won't stop praying until hes better!
ReplyDeleteLove,
The Curry and Melvin Families!